And about your comments regarding feelings, it's nothing personal; my posts today were made in effort to call postyle on his abuse of another poster. When I invited him to "take a hike", it was regarding his very negative, attacking language, his "going postyle".
Also, there is a legit defense of postyle's attacks which is, "if you don't like it, tough luck". I don't agree with that response, but at least it's honest. Come on floydrocks, at least have the courage to call it what it is. He's not "rough around the edges", not "gruff "or "blunt". He's abusive and it is not about the content, he is personal with it.
Many posters who anonymously rec postyle's anonymous personal attacks would not stand for this behavior in real life, not for a minute. Can you imagine the guy next to you in line at the store talking to the cashier that way? Would you let him continue, thinking "well, the cashier just needs to toughen up, besides they probably had it coming". I don't take it. Life is hard enough as it is without angry, abusive behavior.